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Eric Schmidt, the former CEO of Google, said he and other managers didn’t do enough to challenge Facebook when he led the company. “I screwed up,” Schmidt said.
When I saw that statement, it was like two chest bumps. That’s what I am talking about.
There is nothing more exciting for me to see someone fess up to making a mistake. For a leader to do that, it’s just awesome.
In this new era of leadership, you can never be a real leader until you pass that hurdle.
He was always fessing up. I have had my share of doing that, too.
Mistakes: the perfect learning opportunity
As leaders today try and right the ship — whether it be a new product, strategy or a new company — one of the most feared aspect is fear of making a mistake. The only way to not encounter a mistake is to never do anything new. Just keep kicking the can down the road because this way you are assured of never making the “Big M.”
Leaders should embrace mistakes, not only for themselves but for their team as well. If you as the leader will admit you’re wrong, and then walk your team through a process of what you learned and what you would do differently, you will have raised your entire team to a new level.
Not only is it a learning experience for you, but with the example you are setting you will lead your team to a new heights. The big fear in the room will have been has been tackled and subdued.
Mistakes are rich in substance
As a passionate gardener, one of the first items I focus on each season is the rich soil that we use to pot or repot. Mistakes are the same and are just as rich in substance.
The nuggets of wisdom are buried throughout — what can we learn and what will we need to pick up the pieces? There should be a process, and hopefully, it will not be used that often. But when the opportunity presents itself, walk everyone through it.
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When the leader does this by admitting an error, they have faced down the elephant in the room. They give their team room to be creative or innovative. If you set the example by not reprimanding your troops but instead walk them through a methodical process of review as a learning experience, everyone wins.
The leadership model going forward will require an authentic leader who collaborates with his or her team. Let them learn as a team. As a leader there is a great value in gazing from the sidelines even if you know that someone is headed in the wrong direction. The learning experience will be greater for them and everyone involved.
Time to make the next move and move on
Whether you make a big mistake that stinks up the room, or just a small one that is not a big deal, LET IT GO.
Focus on the improvement aspects and what was learned. You are reinforcing everyone’s ability to add “mistake review” to their toolkit. This mentoring model as a part of the learning process creates an atmosphere where your team will become an incubator of strong leadership skills.
As they mature in this process and pass it on, you will have completed the ultimate knowledge transfer.
Just remember: it is always OK to say one of the most important phrases in the leadership vocabulary — “I made a mistake.”
And, always remember this quote from Alexander Pope, in Swift, Miscellanies:
A man should never be ashamed to own he has been in the wrong, which is but saying … that he is wiser today than he was yesterday.”